October 31, 2023

"The Salem Road Family" back in 1992

 



Eleven years or so ago, I handed the reigns to my weekly Record-Review Pound Ridge "Talk of the Town" column over to Ellen Best, journalist extraordinaire. She is doing an interview about my book, "My Stroke in the Fast Lane," so we had a chance to chat.

But before that, take a look at this photo that I treasure and look at every single day. Ellen took it back in August 1992 ... 31 years ago!!! I love the caption. And how about those two cutie pies? David at 3 years old and Annie at 19 months old. Priceless.




October 26, 2023

Applause!! Applause!! (Ah, pshaw)

          Ken, me, and Stephanie at The Outpost after my six-year journey of healing and writing the book. It was quite a celebration to finally give them printed copies.
 


    On page 134, in the "Acknowledgements" of My Stroke in the Fast Lane: A Journey to Recovery, I give a shout-out to Ken Marsolais and Nancy Vick, co-producers of the documentary film, 'The Bullish Farmer," the last project I was working on before the stroke. 
    About a year after "the incident" (doctors' parlay for what happened to me), Ken and I met for lunch at The Outpost in Bedford, New York. I was still on the weak side, self-conscious about my aphasia and slow speech.
    In the book, I write:
    "... Ken was one of the people who encouraged me with the project and put me in touch with his friend Stephanie Susnjara, writer/editor/content strategist.
    "Do you want me to call her right now?" Ken asked.
    It was serendipitous that Stephanie was available to come down. We clicked immediately. It was she who was key to helping me organize my thoughts when I still wasn't able. I put down about ten key events I wanted to cover in the book, and Stephanie interviewed me one by one. We spoke at hour intervals once or twice a week. It was like I was in a trance ... so exhausting.
    The transcriptions of these interviews were a solid beginning to "My Stroke in the Fast Lane."


Ken (being such a gentleman!) brought us both bouquets of flowers




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October 18, 2023

Response from a reader: " ... Your chapter (in 'My Stroke in the Fast Lane') about Ambien made me quit cold turkey! ..."


 "Just letting you know that your chapter about Ambien made me quit cold 

turkey! I did an all-nighter, not intentionally, but because my body wouldn't fall 

asleep all night ... and then I slept without it.  Ambien is such a crutch, and I am so 

glad I took the dive. I'm writing to you because maybe it will help someone else

 afraid to take the leap."




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October 16, 2023

Saturday Night: Book Launch Party!

Many, many thanks to dear friends for hosting a book launch. Everyone selected a section of the book that inspired them. They spoke about the message of the book: "Show courage and strength! Be optimistic! Never give up!"

As my husband (and hero) reminded us, "Carpe fucking Diem." [Seize the #%?!+# Day!]



 





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October 7, 2023

Meanwhile, at the Hudson Valley Writers Center Gala ...


 It was a wonderful evening! Susan Hodaro, my memoir mentor, was all smiles when I gave her a signed copy of My Stroke in the Fast Lane: A Journey to Recovery.  

It was a significant victory for me because when I started her memoir class at Hudson Valley Writers Center, it was the fall after my stroke. I knew after David's wedding, I had to tell the story. But, I could hardly speak. In the workshop, fellow writers had to read their pieces, and then we'd critique it. I remember going up to Susan one day after class, so embarrassed for the strokiness of my voice. 

What is the "strokiness of my voice"? I spoke  s l o w l y,  and the tone of my voice was so 

      L

           O

               W, 

almost whispering.  At some of the workshops, fellow writers were crying after some of my readings. It gave me the quiet self-confidence that I had a good story to tell and must do everything I could to tell it. Six years later, after so much hard work, emotionally and physically, I had the book to give my teacher.

Susan Hodaro is a journalist, memoirist, teacher, and co-author of Still Here Thinking of You: A Second Chance With Our Mothers (Big Table Publishing, 2013). (Bedforders, in case you missed her terrific piece in the New York Times Real Estate section, here it is: "Bedford, N.Y.: History, Horse Farms and Sprawling Estates")

I feel so blessed to have met Susan in the way beginning of my journey. I call her "my memoir mentor and teacher extraordinaire."





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October 2, 2023

A few early reviews of "My Stroke in the Fast Lane"

I am truly humbled by these early comments on the book:


... With a narrative that radiates authenticity and candor, Bonni's tenacity, unyielding determination, and her unique sense of humor become beacons of hope in the darkest corners of ‘Stroke Land’. Her exceptional bravery and unwavering determination are profoundly inspiring, rendering this book a deeply engaging and emotionally charged journey into the limitless resilience of the human spirit. I wholeheartedly recommend it and gladly award it a well-earned five-star rating.


Reviewed in the United States on September 29, 2023
The author literally puts us in the driver's seat of this harrowing swerve out of the fast lane of her happy world into a car wreck of debilitation, loss, pain and despair. All the while, she never loses her sense of humor, hard-earned insights or her fierce conviction that this cruel, senseless detour will ultimately not derail her. I encourage readers to take this roller-coaster ride with her. The book will leave you with greater wisdom, gratitude and vigor for what Bonni calls our "magnificent life."


Reviewed in the United States on September 27, 2023
"I devoured it, cover to cover, all afternoon. THANK YOU for sharing your journey with us so thoughtfully." –Peg Harris

Reviewed in the United States on September 25, 2023

Reviewed in the United States on October 1, 2023
Clear, honest, and skillfully written, this narrative speaks deeply about becoming a survivor, and in some ways is like reading a private journal. Readers will be impressed with Bonni Brodnick’s stunning account of her stroke and heroic recovery.  ... What an amazing intimate look at the medical, psychological, emotional, and spiritual experiences of a woman, and her family, travelling on their road through transformation to triumph. Highly recommended.



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